Couple threesome / cuckolding escort man Netherlands / Holland
Short answer: A couple looking for a threesome or cuckolding with an escort man in the Netherlands can book Milan, an independent male escort. Both partners must agree, boundaries are discussed beforehand and couples pay the same rate as a single client: from €120 per hour.
Looking for an escort man / gigolo in the Netherlands / Holland? Stop searching, on this page I describe my experiences with couples and my way of dating couples.
Dating an extra man as a couple, you have to be able to do it as a couple, but also as a man of the couple. What if he is disrespectful to my partner? What if he has a bigger penis than me? What if he’s pushy and a cocky guy? What if my partner can fall in love with him?
Above I describe some situations that can occur when hiring a gigolo / escort man. Booking an extra man can be good for your relationship, but it can also go completely in the opposite direction. Fortunately, I can proudly say that so far I have discussed all scenarios in advance and indicated the dangers/risks to the couples I come into contact with. We discuss this carefully and if both parties have slight doubts, we postpone our date. The very last thing I would want is to destroy a relationship, I would rather give your sex life an extra boost. I should only be seen as an extra.
How do I deal with a couple? I would like to call or FaceTime with you so that you know who you are dealing with. I will discuss your wishes & boundaries with you. During the date I regularly ask the husband of the couple if everything still feels comfortable. I keep an appropriate distance when it comes to contact with the woman outside the date. (unless you indicate that it is acceptable) I am (too) respectful, keep an eye on how the man experiences it during the date and put myself in his shoes.
Some experiences with couples:
- I was allowed to be a birthday present for a pleasant couple, this was a quick date as they were about to check out of their hotel room
- I was allowed to be an extra man for the wife of a couple, it started with some drinks on the terrace and after this the husband and I started spoiling the wife, this was a special experience, namely, the wife went completely wild and she came twice intensely hard, she had not expected such an experience
- I was allowed to be an extra man for a very loving couple, we had a lot of WhatsApp contact in a group chat, discussed many things in detail, but also just chatted about the daily things in life, which I absolutely will not forget. that the woman had made an A4 sheet of paper and placed it on her stomach with ‘Fuck me gigolo’
- I was allowed to be an extra man for a Ukrainian couple who were celebrating their 25th wedding anniversary. I was instructed to follow the woman to the disabled toilet, turn on the camera: kiss her + eat her out + take off her thong and hand her thong to her husband who was waiting nicely in the restaurant while enjoying a whiskey. In the hotel room I was able to spoil her further while the man was filming.
Would you like more information without obligation? Have you been trying for a while to arrange an extra man for free via sex dating sites, but they never showed up, were they fakes or photo collectors? Don’t fall for it anymore and feel free to contact me.

A personal note for couples
Perhaps you have talked about a threesome or cuckolding fantasy for a long time before sending a first message. My advice: agree together on what is and isn’t okay, choose a stop signal, and start small. I make sure both partners feel seen, and anyone can stop at any moment. Couples pay the same rate as a woman alone.
Rates (all-in): €120 for 1 hour, €200 for 2 hours, €300–400 for an evening, €600 overnight. No travel costs in most of the Netherlands; for Zeeland, Friesland, Groningen and Drenthe we agree travel costs and a minimum booking in advance. Free cancellation up to 6 hours before; cash preferred, Tikkie is fine. No money-back guarantee.
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Frequently asked questions
Do both partners have to want this?
Yes. I always want to hear that both of you agree. Wishes, boundaries and a stop word are discussed beforehand, and either of you can stop at any moment.
Is there a surcharge for couples?
No. Couples pay the same rate as a single client: €120 for 1 hour or €200 for 2 hours.
Where do we meet?
Usually at your hotel, or at your home if it feels private. I travel across the Netherlands.
Is sex required?
No. Sex is never required. Talking, a drink or stopping halfway is a complete evening.
How discreet is it?
A first name is enough, I keep no data and I will not contact you afterwards unless you write first.
