High-class male escort in the Netherlands: what you actually pay
Budget guide · all-in pricing
Short answer: With Milan you pay €120 for one hour, €200 for two hours, €300–400 for an evening or €600 for a night. That price covers his time, travel inside most of the country, protection and any agreed extras. Only a hotel room, dinner bills and trips to Zeeland, Friesland, Groningen or Drenthe come on top.
Why “cheap” and “all-in” are not the same thing
When women search for an inexpensive male escort, the first number they see is rarely the number they end up paying. A low hourly figure can grow quickly once a travel charge, a “special request” fee, an agency booking cost and a minimum of two hours are added. By the end of the conversation a so-called bargain may cost twice the advertised amount. I find that frustrating to watch, because it makes people feel tricked before they have even met anyone.
My approach is the opposite. I publish four prices and I stick to them. What you read on this page is what you hand over at the start of the date. There is nothing to unlock later and nothing hidden in small print. Being affordable, to me, means being predictable: you should be able to plan a date the way you would plan a nice dinner, knowing the total before you leave the house.
The four prices, and what each one buys you
One hour for €120 is the most budget-friendly way to meet me. It suits a first meeting, a massage, or a short and focused date. Two hours for €200 is the option I recommend to most people, because the extra hour costs only €80 and removes almost all time pressure. An evening for €300–400 leaves room for food or a walk before we go back to your place or your room; where you land in that range depends on how long the evening runs. A night for €600 includes sleeping in the same bed and breakfast together.
If you divide the night price by the hours involved, it becomes the cheapest rate per hour by a wide margin. That is deliberate. I would rather people choose more time than rush.
What is included in that price
- My time for the full length we agreed, starting when I arrive.
- Travel within the Netherlands, apart from the four provinces mentioned below.
- Condoms and lubricant; you never need to buy anything.
- A preparation chat on WhatsApp beforehand, so the date starts with mutual understanding.
- Agreed extras such as massage, light role play or a couple booking. Couples pay exactly the same rate as a woman on her own.
What is not included
A small number of costs sit outside my price because they are yours to choose. The main one is a hotel room. If you prefer to meet in a hotel, you usually book and pay for the room yourself, which also means you decide the location, the standard and the budget. The same goes for a restaurant bill if we eat out, drinks at a bar, or a taxi you take home. None of these are fees I charge; they are simply what a date costs anywhere.
The only travel supplement I ask for applies to Zeeland, Friesland, Groningen and Drenthe. Those trips take a large part of a day, so I agree a travel amount with you in advance. Everywhere else, from Limburg to North Holland, you pay the normal price.
Ways to keep the total low without lowering the quality
- Meet at your home instead of a hotel, if that feels safe and private for you. That removes the biggest extra cost.
- Pick two hours instead of booking one hour twice. You save €40 and gain a more relaxed date.
- Skip the restaurant and cook something simple together, or order in. Many women tell me that is more intimate anyway.
- Choose a weekday. My price does not change, but hotels are often cheaper from Sunday to Thursday.
- Combine a night with a city trip you were planning anyway, so the hotel does double duty.
Why my prices are lower than many others
I have worked as an independent male escort since 2023, and I do it next to a regular job. That has two effects on price. First, there is no agency taking a percentage, so I do not have to inflate my rate to cover a middleman. Second, I am not dependent on filling a calendar every week, so I can keep prices fair and still give each booking my full attention.
Being cheaper does not mean cutting corners. I arrive on time, freshly showered and well dressed, I am regularly tested for STIs, and I only meet adults aged 21 and over. Safe sex is never negotiable. What you save is the agency margin, not the care.
Is a low price a red flag?
It is a fair question. Some extremely low offers online are not real, or they come with pressure to pay up front. A trustworthy budget option has a few things in common: the person is identifiable, the prices are published, there is no deposit except a small one for long trips, and there are independent reviews. On Kinky.nl I have an average of 4.7 from 8 reviews, written by people I met. I have also spoken about my work in a Telegraaf podcast and my work was discussed in a guest article on merlehebing.nl.
How payment works
You pay at the start of the appointment, preferably in cash; a Tikkie is fine too. I do not ask for a deposit, except a small one for long trips. You can cancel free of charge up to six hours before we meet. Once a date has taken place there is no refund, which is exactly why the preparation chat matters so much: by the time I knock on your door, we both know what the evening will look like.
For more detail on comparing my rate with agencies, read independent vs agency male escort prices. If you are curious what a single hour looks like in practice, see what to expect from a one-hour booking.
Languages and practical details
A worked example
Imagine you live in Utrecht and want a relaxed first date at home on a Wednesday evening. You choose two hours. The total is €200, paid at the start in cash or with a Tikkie. There is no travel fee, no deposit (except a small one for long trips), nothing for condoms and nothing for the massage you asked for. Now imagine the same date in a mid-range hotel instead: the total for me is still €200, and the only difference is the room you booked yourself. That is the whole calculation.
If you live in Groningen, the only change is a travel amount we agree before you decide. You will always know the figure up front.
In short: one published price, paid when we meet, with no surprises afterwards. That is what affordable means to me.
I speak Dutch and English fluently and a little basic German, nothing more. You can write to me in English on WhatsApp or Telegram and we will keep the whole booking in English if that is easier for you. I live between Brabant and Utrecht, which puts most of the central and southern Netherlands within easy reach.
Frequently asked questions
What is the cheapest way to book Milan?
One hour for €120 at your own home. There is no extra cost for travel in most provinces and no deposit.
Is the hotel room included?
No. The room is not part of my price; usually you book and pay for it yourself.
Do couples pay more?
No. Couples pay the same rate as a woman on her own.
Are there any travel fees?
Only for Zeeland, Friesland, Groningen and Drenthe. Everywhere else the normal price applies.
Can I get my money back if I am not satisfied?
No, there is no money-back arrangement. We discuss expectations beforehand so the date matches what you want.
How do I pay?
At the start of the date, in cash or with a Tikkie.
Where does Milan live?
Between Brabant and Utrecht, so most of the central and southern Netherlands is within easy reach without extra cost.
Plan a date that fits your budget
Send me a message with the length you have in mind and roughly where you live. I will confirm the total before anything is booked.